All about planets

We are doing astronomy this year in school. My kids really enjoy learning about the sun and planets. I thought I would share a couple fun resources I found that have helped me teach them about the planets!


We made a model solar system our first week. I found a cool kit at mardel for that, you can find it HERE


To help them remember the order of the planets we sing this fun song.
(To the tune of twinkle twinkle little star)

I know the planets one by one

Starting with the one that's closest to the sun.

Mercury, Venus, Earth and Mars,

Are the first four among the stars.

Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune

Are the next planets in my tune.

Pluto's the farthest one from the sun.

I know the planets one by one.

It's a pretty catchy song! 

I also printed these free coloring pages found HERE 

I really love our science curriculum Apologia. We are slowly working through our book and the kids really enjoy the activities and experiments! You can find it HERE


What cool things are you doing for astronomy? I would love to hear your ideas too!

Science experiment

This was a neat science experiment we did today during school. The kids enjoyed taking turns picking colors and seeing how they mix together, move around, and make different patterns. Here are the directions for the experiment!

Ingredients needed:

Dish soap

VitaminD milk

Qtip or cotton ball

Food coloring (we used neon so the colors were really bright) 

Directions:

Soak Qtips or cotton balls in dish soap

Fill a bowl or plate with milk

Drop food coloring in and then place the Qtip or cotton ball in the center and watch the magic! 

The dish soap does not mix with the milk. Instead it floats on top and spreads over the surface. As it spreads, it grabs the food coloring. Soap is a "degreaser" so the molecules in it are attacking the fat in the milk, causing motion which creates the swirling of the colors. 

Short video here: http://instagram.com/p/x5AxVhzJWy/

Starting off

The colors made a neat star shape

Then they started swirling all around

This one was pretty cool

Home made puffy paint

My kids love making this paint! It smells good, it's Edible, and easy to make! I let them mix it up and watch it magically change colors. Here is the recipe we use

Cool whip + cool aid packs

That's it! Super easy, and super cheap fun! We use this for finger painting. They love getting messy with it(be prepared, it is a bit sticky).

The best part, When you have one that likes to eat things, no worries! 

How do I do it?

I have three small children, plus I'm a nanny for a sweet little girl, whom I love like my own. I love all of them to pieces. They bring me so much joy and my life would feel empty without them. I stay home full time and homeschool them. I often get told that I must be super mom. Or "how do I do it all?" I felt like I needed to share "how I do it". 

  I have good days where I feel organized, I'm able to cook nice meals, manage a lot of housework, teach a good day of school and have time for ministry or activities. Good days when I love my children and my husband well. These are the days most of you know, because I often take pictures and post to my Instagram page or write about it on facebook. I'm proud of these days and of my children and I like to share that with everyone. 

But then, the very next day I can have three fighting kids that don't get along, a husband who is working all day and night, nothing to cook for dinner (so we eat cereal or Frozen pizza) sweats on and my hair in a messy bun(that is actually every single day, that's why you don't see very many pictures of myself) no make up on(also every single day) no clean laundry to wear. House is a mess, dishes that need done, and a mile long to do list that won't get finished. Definitely not the perfect, organized day. 

 That second scenario seems more the norm than the first day. I get frustrated with my kids, lose my temper and snap at them. Then feel like a horrible mother and run to ask forgiveness. I fail all of the time. It feels like a never ending cycle of good for a while, then bad. Good, then bad. 

Why can't I just be in a good mood and have my life run smoothly everyday like that first day scenario? 

Why can't I love my husband and children well ALL of the time? 

Why do I feel like I'm suffocating in stress and snap at people for no reason some days?
Why can't we have more money and be able to pay all of our debt? 

Why can't we just have our own home already? 

Why does my husband have to work 80hrs a week and miss so much?

Why can't I just talk sweet all of the time and have tons of patients with my children? You know, like the Michelle duggar kind of patients? 

Why can't my house just STAY organized after I spend so much effort to make it that way?

Why? 

Wait a minute. You thought I was sharing a tutorial of how I keep my life together so perfectly and run my household smoothly? Oh yes, on to that. 

The answer is....I'm human. I'm not perfect. My home isn't always together.I can't do it all. Life happens. Life isn't always pretty.  I can't get up and slap a smile on my face every single day and pretend like life isn't happening around me. I can't always control my emotions and not let things bother me. I can't be needed 24/7 by 4 people and not feel tired or run down at times. I cant watch people around me suffer and die and not feel sadness and heartache. I can't add more hours to the day to accomplish my mile long to do list. I can't make money grow on trees. I can't even shower everyday!   I.Can't.Do.It

But.....

 I don't have to do all of that. I have someone who takes care of it all for me. He is pretty perfect and I wouldn't have any of those good days without his help. 

When I'm full of Impatience and irritated with my two year old, He whispers in my ear "calm down, It's okay. I'm here, let me help" .

When I'm feeling run down and tired, he reminds me to slow down and rest. 

When I feel like I'm a horrible mother and wife, he tells me he loves me and I'm cherished. 

When I feel like I can't get up and continue on, he picks me up and carries me. 

When I fail and fall into sin, he tells me I'm forgiven and i'm still loved. 

When Im lost, he directs my steps and brings me back home. 

When someone hurts me, he heals me.

When I want everything to be perfect, he reminds me of what's important. 

When I'm ungrateful for what I have, he reminds me how blessed I am.

When I feel ugly, He tells me I'm fearfully and wonderfully made in his image. 

When I'm in need, he provides.

When I'm sad, he brings me joy and comfort. 

When I need someone to talk to, he listens and he gets me. 

He is my hope. He is my hero. He is my savior.

 I greatly need him more and more everyday. He is enough for me. It's only through him that I make it through the day. He is my all and all, to him be all the glory. I'm not the one in control, he is. He has walked in my shoes, and endured much more than I could ever Imagine. He overcame this life for me and tells me to fear not.

So that's it. That's my secret. Accept it isn't a secret, and I hope that you also will know him if you don't already. His arms are wide open, waiting for you. Calling you by name. He loves you.  It's never too late

"Hallelujah, forever

All the glory, forever

All the praise to you

My heart will sing

No other name

Jesus, Jesus"

I love you, O Lord, my strength. The Lord is my rock and my fortress and my deliverer, my God, my rock, in whom I take refuge, my shield, and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold. I call upon the Lord, who is worthy to be praised, and I am saved from my enemies. The cords of death encompassed me; the torrents of destruction assailed me; the cords of Sheol entangled me; the snares of death confronted me. In my distress I called upon the Lord; to my God I cried for help. From his temple he heard my voice, and my cry to him reached his ears. Then the earth reeled and rocked; the foundations also of the mountains trembled and quaked, because he was angry. Smoke went up from his nostrils, and devouring fire from his mouth; glowing coals flamed forth from him. He bowed the heavens and came down; thick darkness was under his feet. He rode on a cherub and flew; he came swiftly on the wings of the wind. He made darkness his covering, his canopy around him, thick clouds dark with water. Out of the brightness before him hailstones and coals of fire broke through his clouds. The Lord also thundered in the heavens, and the Most High uttered his voice, hailstones and coals of fire. And he sent out his arrows and scattered them; he flashed forth lightnings and routed them. Then the channels of the sea were seen, and the foundations of the world were laid bare at your rebuke, O Lord, at the blast of the breath of your nostrils. He sent from on high, he took me; he drew me out of many waters. He rescued me from my strong enemy and from those who hated me, for they were too mighty for me. They confronted me in the day of my calamity, but the Lord was my support. He brought me out into a broad place; he rescued me, because he delighted in me. (‭Psalm‬ ‭18‬:‭1-19‬ ESV)

Love is patient

This is a wonderful chapter I read in one of my daily devotions. I really think this speaks volumes to a lot of parents, including myself. I just thought I would share with you since I really enjoyed reading this. I hope it brings a little encouragement to you!


Love is Patient

Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. (Ephesians 6:4 ESV)

When you truly love someone, two key attributes will show up on a regular basis: patience and kindness. In fact, many other characteristics of love are based upon these two attributes. Patients is how love diffuses something negative; kindness is how love initiates something positive. One takes in a deep breath; the other breaths out life. As you know, raising a child requires a unlimited supply of both. But today, we will focus on the first of these two essentials...patience. 

  Patience is when love chooses to "suffer long" for the greater good of another. It is like a experienced farmer who knows that fruitful fields only come if he is willing to endure the heat of the sun. Patience is like a wise builder who spends long hours slaving over blueprints, negotiating contracts, and overseeing supplies so his desired vision can become a reality. Both the farmer and the builder must persist when they want to resist. They must daily keep investing time and hard effort until they can celebrate the great harvest or the open house.

  Likewise, being a loving parent requires a long supply of this amazing attribute. You are cultivating and building up your children, and all of your hard work and sacrifice will ultamitely pay off. But today requires your enduring patience. It is something we all need but rarely delight in demonstrating.  Yet love invites us to exercise it frequently as parents. And when we do, it brings maturity both to us and our children, as well as needed grace and peace in the midst of our problems.

  Children have an amazing ability to test the level of their parents' patients by their tone, disobedience, irresponsibility, or any lack of respect. Sometimes parents can feel so angry, they say or do things in the heat of the emotion that damages young hearts and minds. The impact can leave a deep and lasting emotional scar for many years to come.

  This is why we find God's patients so exemplary. When Moses was on the mountaintop, he discovered why God kept putting up with His rebellious, complaining children: God was "compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, and abounding in lovingkindness"(Exodus 34:6). He let His overflowing love control  His anger. Whenever he did choose to be angry and firm, it was only after multiple, extended demonstrations of His compassion and patience.

  Today, God is still gracious and patient with us as His children. So when we are unlovable and selfish, distracted and disobedient, we need to remember His enduring love for us and let His example of love overflow onto us and our children.

  We must refuse to spring off the handle in front of our offspring. When they see controlling our anger, it teaches them to control theirs. The scripture says "be angry, and yet do not sin"(Ephesians 4:26). Sometimes anger is appropriate, but we should never let it get out of bounds. Discipline and correction must be wisely rationed, but only after we've first demonstrated loving patients.

 Do you children see you as an angry, frustrated parent? Or would they describe you as compassionate and patient instead? Love chooses restraint. It controls your emotions rather than letting them control you. It challenges you to develop a long fuse instead of igniting a short temper. If you unnecessarily blow your top, it reminds you to humble yourself and quickly apologize, knowing much is at stake. Wrath, on the other hand, is cruel( Proverbs 27:4). It divides and isolates. It weakens us and wounds others. I causes us to behave in foolish, regrettable ways. It almost never makes things better and usually generates additional problems.

 If you struggle with anger, ask yourself why. Are your expectations realistic? Are you angry with somebody else, yet taking it out on your kids? You may harbor painful memories of a parent's harsh anger toward you when you were young. But this pain doesn't need to be passed on to your children.

 Sometimes anger is rooted in our own sin or hypocrisy. We often get the most agry with our kids in the same areas where we ourselves are weak. But overreacting to wrongful actions and attitudes that are familiar to us doesn't do anything to "fix"  us, and it only frustrates them. That's where a humble confession may yield more effective instruction then the firm anger of your correction. When they know you love them and can admit your own humanity, your counsel and training carry much more meaning.

  Patience is always welcome. It gives people more time to work through their issues. It beautifully diffuses conflict before trouble has a chance to escalate. It whispers peace into situations brewing towards eruption. It's not a blanket form of tolerance that lets everything go, but rather a wise surveyor of the situation, allowing  proper steps to be taken.

 Parenting does call for action against carelessness and defiance. But we must differentiate between true rebellion and what might be childish ignorance. Our kids don't think like us; why do we expect them to act like us? We must factor in the circumstances, their age, and their level of maturity.
 So instead of raising up and tearing down, let love calm you down. Then you can build them up. The more patient you are today, the more victories you can celebrate tomorrow.


Write the word " LOVE IS PATIENT" on a piece of paper and temporarily tape it to your mirror or refrigerator. When you see it over the next few weeks, purpose to display patients throughout the day as a further demonstration of your Love to your children.

Count your Blessings

Isn't it funny how God seems to bring the right scripture and right devotional to you in a time when you need to hear it most? I needed to read this today!  This scripture I read this morning was a great reminder for me to count my blessings and remember how "rich" I really am. I just thought I would pass it along :)



For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it. But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that. Those who want to get rich fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destruction. For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs. But you, man of God, flee from all this, and pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, endurance and gentleness. Fight the good fight of the faith. Take hold of the eternal life to which you were called when you made your good confession in the presence of many witnesses. In the sight of God, who gives life to everything, and of Christ Jesus, who while testifying before Pontius Pilate made the good confession, I charge you to keep this command without spot or blame until the appearing of our Lord Jesus Christ, which God will bring about in his own time—God, the blessed and only Ruler, the King of kings and Lord of lords, who alone is immortal and who lives in unapproachable light, whom no one has seen or can see. To him be honor and might forever. Amen. Command those who are rich in this present world not to be arrogant nor to put their hope in wealth, which is so uncertain, but to put their hope in God, who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment. Command them to do good, to be rich in good deeds, and to be generous and willing to share. In this way they will lay up treasure for themselves as a firm foundation for the coming age, so that they may take hold of the life that is truly life. Timothy, guard what has been entrusted to your care. Turn away from godless chatter and the opposing ideas of what is falsely called knowledge, which some have professed and in so doing have departed from the faith. Grace be with you all. (1 Timothy 6:7-21 NIV)

Imperfect progress

Here is the last devotion from the "No more unglued momma mornings". You can find the full devotional on the you version Bible app. I'm reading her book "unglued" right now and it's a wonderful book, check it out!




Practice these things, immerse yourself in them, so that all may see your progress. (1 Timothy 4:15 ESV)


IMPERFECT PROGRESS 

What kept me from making changes with unglued mama mornings for so long was the feeling I wouldn't do it perfectly. I knew I'd still mess up and come unglued. Sometimes we girls think if we don't make instant progress, then real change isn't coming. 

But that's not so. 

There is a beautiful reality called imperfect progress. The day I realized the glorious hope of this kind of imperfect change is the day I gave myself permission to believe I really could be different. 
Imperfect changes are slow steps of progress wrapped in grace … imperfect progress. And good heavens, I need lots of that. So, I dared to write this in my journal: 

Progress. Just make progress. It's okay to have setbacks and to need do-overs. It's okay to draw a line in the sand and start over again—and again. Just make sure you're moving the line forward. Move forward. Take baby steps, but at least take steps that keep you from being stuck. Then change will come. And it will be good. 

These honest words enabled me to begin rewriting my story. Not that I erased what came before, but I stopped rehashing it and turned the page afresh. Eventually, I started blogging about my raw emotions and imperfect changes. In response, I got comments whispering, "Me too." 

"Being unglued, for me, comes from a combination of anger and fear," wrote Kathy. "I think part of it is learned behavior. This is how my father was." Courtney honestly admitted, "I come unglued when I feel out of control because my kids are screaming or fighting or whining or negotiating and won't listen. I like silence, calm, obedience, and control. When it's not going 'my way,' I come unglued and freak out and it goes quiet. And then the regret comes." 

And the comments kept coming, all of them expressing the exact same struggle, the same frustration, and the same need for hope. So many women whose daily circumstances differed but whose core issues were the same.

I realized then that maybe other women could make some imperfect progress too. And a book idea was born from that simple realization. But I had to laugh at the irony of it. I had just published a book called Made to Crave that dealt with what goes into my mouth. Now I was writing a book called Unglued to deal with what comes out of my mouth. 

This Unglued journey is about my imperfect progress. It's an honest admission that this struggle of reining in how I react has been hard for me. But hard doesn't mean impossible. 
How hard something is often depends on your vantage point. 

For example, consider the shell of an egg. Looking at it from the outside, we know an eggshell is easily broken. But if you're looking at that same shell from the inside, it seems an impenetrable fortress. It's impossible for the raw white and tender yolk to penetrate the hardness of the eggshell. 
But given time and the proper incubation, the white and yolk develop into a new life that breaks through the shell and shakes itself free. And in the end, we can see that the hard work of cracking the shell was good for the new baby chick. 

The shell actually provided a place for new life to grow, and then enabled the chick to break forth in strength. 

Might the same be true for our hard places? Might all this struggle with our raw emotions and unglued feelings have the exact same potential for new life and new strength? 

I think so. I know so. I've seen so. 

Mother Teresa is quoted as saying, "Be faithful in small things because it is in them that your strength lies." Make some small imperfect progress today and discover your potential for new life and new strength. 

MAKING IT A REALITY: 

For the next week, write the words imperfect progress at the top of every day's to do list. If you have a smart phone, set an alert to pop up each morning of this week to remind you, "Make imperfect progress today." Then determine that making imperfect progress with your reactions is the most important thing you can accomplish today.

BRING IT!

Today's devotion from the author of "unglued" and "made to crave". Which are two really great books!

Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth. (Colossians 3:2 ESV)


BRING IT! 
Just in case you aren't feeling like mother of the year today, let me make you feel better. While I was packing lunches recently my daughter said with great urgency, "Mom, just make sure none of the food you are packing in my lunch is rotten." 

Alrighty then. A statement like that will just build your mom confidence ALL DAY LONG! 

Do you ever have these little zingers that fly into your morning and sting your heart? I suspect you do. And it's these kinds of things that can catch us off guard and start ratcheting up the tension that leads to coming unglued. 

We don't want to be unglued mamas. We don't want to have mornings filled with unglued moments. So, today let's think about what we do want our mornings to be filled with ... love, peace, joy, sanity, kind words, and interactions with our kids that won't be retold years later on some therapist's couch. 

Yes, that's what we want. 

But here's the tricky part: I can't control the unpredictable attitudes my kids are going to bring into each morning. 

I can't set my hope for a good morning on what my kids might or might not do. I must bring the attitude with which I want the morning to be filled. Just like our key verse says, I have to set my mind on things from above ... things from God. 

A few years ago my friend Angela Thomas challenged me with this "bring it" idea. We were talking about how sometimes when we show up to speak the audience seems a little lacking in energy. As a speaker, it's really hard to step in front of an audience with very low energy. So, Angela decides what kind of energy the room needs to be filled with and she brings it as she steps on stage. 

She focuses her energy on what she has control over. 

She can't control the mood of an audience any more than we can control the moods of our kids. But we can determine if a good mood is what we want as we pack lunches, sign last minute permission slips, and pile backpacks into the car, then we can make the choice to bring it. 

Here are three reminders that will help us bring it: 

1. Feelings are indicators not dictators.
 
I'm not always going to have blissful, happy feelings. I'm just not. But while my feelings may indicate I have some things to address, they don't have to dictate a bad mood. It's time for me to be the boss of my feelings and determine to bring the joy I want my home to be filled with today. 

2. Bad moments don't make bad mamas.
 
Have you ever caught yourself labeling the kind of mother you are in light of a few bad moments with your kids? "I'm not patient." "I lose it all the time." "I'm the most disorganized mother on the planet." 

Me too. 

But these labels won't help us bring more joy into our mornings—they'll just bog us down. Here's the reality ... just because I have an impatient moment doesn't mean I'm an impatient mother. We need to stop the self-condemning labels by matching each negative moment with a positive reality. Maybe I had an impatient moment when I helped with homework last night but this morning I'm bringing patience in the way I helped my daughter find something to wear. 

3. Find the joy treasure.
 
There will be a treasure hidden in the moments you experience this morning. Look for it. 
Look for the way she tucks her curls behind her ears and ties the ribbon in her hair. Look for the way he fiddles with his hat trying to look cool. Take a snapshot this morning of this joy treasure. Don't miss it. When you find it, tuck it in your heart and let it sink deep. These are the moments that form that wellspring of joy and help us keep bringing it. 
Peace, love, joy, patience, kindness—these are the things with which we want to fill our mornings. Despite the circumstances we face and the attitudes of others, it is possible to have this wonderful atmosphere—if we decide to bring it. 

MAKING IT A REALITY: 

Make the choice to bring the atmosphere you want by writing out the words that describe what you want your morning to be like. Try using a dry erase marker on your bathroom mirror. You can also write these 3 statements for "bringing it" on other windows and mirrors throughout your home:
 
* "Feelings are indicators not dictators."
 
* "Bad moments don't make bad mamas."
 
* "Find the joy treasure." 

When your family asks you about these statements you've written, just smile and proudly proclaim, "They help me bring it." 

I am the MOM

Just passing on another one of the devotions I've been reading.  Being a mom is hard work, but totally worth it :) This is something I needed today!


Let your reasonableness be known to everyone. The Lord is at hand; do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. (Philippians 4:5, 6 ESV)


I AM THE MOM 

I find being a mom the most stretching thing I've ever done. I carry with me evidence of this stretching. Marks on my body. Marks on my heart. 

It's thrilling. Heartbreaking. Sweet. Exciting. Disillusioning. And incredibly unpredictable. 
Just when I think I've figured a few things out and I'm about to shine my mommy halo, something happens. Something loud and tearful and frustratingly difficult. And I find myself knee deep in drama wondering if I will survive with any sanity at all. 

It makes me laugh when I think back to being pregnant with my first child eighteen years ago. I was convinced I would die in the child birthing process. I even set up a special meeting with my doctor to go over exactly what happens in the birthing process and tearfully gave him all the reasons I was convinced I would not survive this process. 

I so wish I could go stand in front of my little, um huge, pregnant self and say this: 

"Honey, you will not perish giving birth. This part of motherhood will seem like a walk in the park in just a few years. You will not only survive giving birth but you are about to spend the next twenty years having your tiny little brain and your tiny little heart experience more highs and lows than you can shake a stick at. Just remember one thing ... You are the mom. That's right you da' mama. Repeat after me ... I am the Mom. I am the Mom. I am the Mom! Don't ever forget that." 

Yes, I would tell my little huge pregnant self that because it's easy to forget sometimes who's really in charge. My kids want to be in charge. And while they certainly have the strong wills and wonders of leadership ... my husband is quick to remind me, it's immature leadership. Leadership that needs to be shaped and molded and corrected and reigned in. 
Zephaniah 3:17 (NKJV) says, "The Lord your God in your midst, The Mighty One, will save; He will rejoice over you with gladness, He will quiet you with His love, He will rejoice over you with singing." 

Philippians 4:5b-6a (NIV 1984) says, "The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything." 
This reminds me I am not left to my own pitiful attempts at this daunting task but because Jesus is with me I have power. Real power. Not just theories and words given by human parenting experts whose advice may or may not work. I have power to rise up to be da' mama. 

God has appointed me to be in charge which means, using the maturity and wisdom I've gained, I must shape and mold my kids. I can't let them use their immaturity and limited perspectives to dictate me. 

I am the mom. Therefore I must be the mom. And one of the best ways to implement this during stressful mornings is to remember: My kid's irresponsibility will not become my emergency. 

I need to communicate my expectations to the kids so they know they are going to have to own the consequences of their choices. 

For example, if they wait until the last minute to print their report and the printer has no ink, then they can't print their report. They'll either have to figure out how to print it at school or turn it in late. Either way, I can't own this situation and let it throw me into frantic, fix-it mode. I let the consequences of their choices scream, so I don't have to. 
I have what it takes to be the mom! 

You have what it takes to be the mom!

Now, be the mom! 

Not sure who else needed this little pep rally this morning. But I sure did. 

MAKING IT A REALITY: 

Go ahead and think through some logical and realistic consequences you can give when your kids need your correction. This is especially good to have for rushed and stressful morning routines. For example, tell them what time you expect them to be in the car ready to go. For every minute they are late, they will have to go to bed 10 minutes early that night. Six minutes late will mean they'll be heading to bed an hour early. For older kids you might want to adjust their weekend curfew t

Managing Blessings

Just wanted to share my devotional from this morning. I've been reading through a new one with my Bible app about motherhood and some of the trials we have on a daily basis. I have really enjoyed reading it and I thought you may enjoy it too!

Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. (1 Thessalonians 5:18 ESV)

MANAGING BLESSINGS 

I have never been a member of the perfect mom's club. Never. But if I ever was, I'll tell you about the day my membership would have surely been revoked. 

It was my youngest daughter, Brooke's big "Let's Celebrate Mommy Day" at the church preschool. All the mommies waited excitedly in the hall for little hands to put last minute touches on the well-decorated room. 

I was already feeling off as I stood with all the other moms who'd actually taken time to do their hair and wear outfits. My wet hair was slicked back haphazardly in a banana clip. My black yoga pants had some sort of smear across the thigh. And my tennis shoes looked clunky standing with all the other cute sandals and well pedicured toes. 

Finally, the teacher came to the classroom door and welcomed us inside. 

A room full of cupcakes, giggles, claps and sparkling preschool eyes greeted us. 

The highlight of the room was the clothesline with pinned artistic treasures. Each child had been asked to draw a picture of their mommy's favorite place. Then the teacher wrote below the crayon masterpiece what the child said when drawing the picture. 

There were pictures of beaches and mountains and even a grocery store. The preciousness abounded. Until. I got to the picture featuring my favorite place. 

"My mommy's favorite place is in bed with Daddy." 

Oh have mercy on my soul that could die a thousand deaths right here in the preschool room. 

Yes. I kid you not. 

My only saving grace was that both mommy and daddy were fully clothed, sitting on the bed eating ice cream. 

But still. 

The rhythm of motherhood will always be set to a slightly chaotic beat. I can be rattled to the core by the unpredictability of it all. Or I can choose to laugh, dance, and remember I'm managing blessings. 

So, this morning when things start swirling and you can feel your attitude slipping, whisper to yourself, "All of this is evidence that I'm managing blessings." And then thank heaven above that your kid didn't draw "that" picture. 

MAKING IT A REALITY: 

Write each of your kids a note and list five things you've noticed about them lately that you love and admire. It's amazing what happens in our hearts and theirs when we focus on their blessings rather than their chaos. 

Quite a eventful two weeks....

Well Hello!
 It seems like its been forever since I updated the blogs! With all the crazy Oklahoma weather and then losing power for the past couple days, I haven't had a minute to sit down long enough to get on here. So here's a post to catch you up, and hopefully this week will be much less crazy and I can get back to a somewhat normal routine again.


Tonight is our first night sleeping back at home since Fridays storms came through our area.  We are SO happy to be back home and we feel SO grateful that we have a home still standing to come to. The past two weeks have been quite a emotional ride and I will say I am SO ready for the Hot summer weather and I am totally over spring!

I've learned a few lessons after the crazy tornado events we have had here.

#1. We need to buy a storm shelter ASAP! I am grateful that my parents have a safe room, but I've realized after the Moore tornado on the 20th that I might not always have time to run across town to my moms(by the time we made it to my moms through traffic the tornado was already on the ground 3 miles from my house!)

#2: I will be getting better insurance

 #3: I will NEVER listen to my husband and let him stay at work on a day when they have the whole city shut down by 4:00, and are live streaming waiting for big tornadoes to come barreling through the city. He is pretty stubborn sometimes, and Friday he was one of the crazies out driving in between tornadoes trying to find a place to take shelter, it was 10:00 before he finally made it home and it was a long evening of me not knowing where he was or if he was okay. At first he said he was at work and there was a shelter, so I was okay with him staying. Next thing I know the sky is dropping down huge tornadoes left and right, the weather man is going crazy and saying things like "huge wedge tornadoes, multi vortex, killer tornado and may 3rd. I'm seeing things on facebook of people getting sucked off the highway, at that point my husbands last words to me before we got disconnected were "I'm in my truck and headed towards Newcastle, I can see a tornado just north of me over mustang area", then dial tones and busy signals. It was over a hour before I learned that he found a Walmart to take shelter in until it all passed and he was okay (thankfully).  I didn't know whether I wanted to hurt him or hug him when he walked in the door, but I went with the hug....and I may have made a few threats if he ever tried that again :)

#4: battery operated fans will come in handy if we ever have to pile in a safe room again, those rooms get HOT, and crying, hot kids are no fun.

#5 and most important: God is in control, and it feels so good knowing that even when I am stressed or overwhelmed, I can turn to him and he comforts and helps me get through it. I'm still learning not to worry about things and that I shouldn't fear, but I'm not perfect and sometimes I do get scared. sometimes I get overwhelmed  and caught up in a moment, I've felt like God is so far away and sometimes I lose my cool and fall apart. But that's okay, that just means I'm human and I need Jesus all the more. When I'm weak and suffering he is strong and he uses those hard and scary times to remind me of my weakness and dependence on him. I am not strong enough to handle things on my own, but HE is strong and HE is the one I should turn to in times of hardship, not just the happy times when things are going my way. He continues to pick me back up when I fall and he teaches me new things everyday. He doesn't promise me a easy life that is care free, but he does promise that this life is as bad as it will get for me. One day there will be no more tornadoes, no more death, no more sickness and no more struggles, and in the mean time he is here to help carry me through. I am VERY grateful for that.


Our thoughts and prayers are with all the families who have lost loved ones in the past couple weeks. We are praying for our state and with Gods help we will be able to get through all of this!

Car's themed 3rd Birthday

If you know my children, then you know that my son hunter has a obsession with cars and trucks. He has quite the collection too! Even though he has hundreds of little cars and trucks, when he is asked what he wants for his birthday or Christmas his answer is always one of three things. 1: A car, 2: a truck or 3: lightning McQueen and mater.

When we go shopping he always picks a little hot wheel car, or lately he loves the teeny tiny Disney cars. I guess it's kinda like a woman and her shoes or purses, you just can't have too many!

So when his birthday was quickly approaching I asked him what kind of party he wanted, I shouldn't have even had to ask because of course it had to be a cars themed party! Not just any cars either, it had to be lightning McQueen and mater!

Now this year my budget was cut way back, so I had about $100 to do his whole party. We had a afternoon party at our house, mostly family. I served a few snacks and the cousins played. All and all it was a great party, the kids had fun, and the birthday boy was happy! It turned out pretty cute too!


This is the snack table. The backdrop is a fence panel we leave up in our toy room...i have a plan to attach it to the wall for a neat idea for a wall accent, I am going to hang frames on it. This was not intentional, but we had it up after a craft party I had when I was selling my wreaths and everyone thought I should leave it up. Now I've grown attached, and its nice for other parties as a backdrop. So its staying!

The black fabric I saved from a wedding shower I hosted a couple years ago, I've used it for three wedding showers, a baby shower and now a birthday party. Best $10 I've spent! It sure does beat buying a paper cloth for every party, and its so much prettier!

I made the flag banner with intention to put his name on it. I didn't have time to get it done though because it was a very last minute decision to make it. I have it hanging in his bedroom now and plan on adding his name to it. Yes, of course his bedroom is decorated in a cars theme. So I was happy to do his party in the same theme, that way I can re-use the decor in his bedroom! One thing I have learned over the past few years is to plan party themes with colors in mind that match my house. so then after the party I can re-use the decor in my house. This saves me money(because I can re-use the decor for other parties or year after year) and also gives me a great excuse to decorate my house!

 The signs I found at hobby lobby half off, and I bought them for his bedroom. They cost me about $15 for all three. The checkered fabric I'm using to make two window valances in his bedroom. I used my 40% off coupon and snagged 2 yard for around $6!

Now on to the snacks...
I wanted to serve popcorn, because its cheap, easy to make, and the kids love it! I made these cute popcorn cones out of scrapbook paper and stickers, also found half off at hobby lobby. It cost about $1.50 to make all of them 

I also make chocolate covered pretzel sticks, or rather "dip sticks". I found this cute oil can to go with his bedroom decor a while back, it seemed appropriated to put the dip sticks in the oil can ;)

The red crate is something I had lying around, I spray painted it red and filled it with black crinkled paper, found at hobby lobby for about $1 or 2.

I used some of hunters cars collection to add to the decorations

The rest of the snacks I put in some jars and things I have collected over the year for parties, when I'm not using them for parties they go in my pantry to store pasta and other things in. The big round jars I found at walmart for around $5 each. the glass bowls were $2 from walmart

I made a batch of peanut butter chocolate chip granola, and we had organic Annie's cheddar bunny snack mix, my mom made a delicious batch of caramel popcorn that was amazing! Ill have to share that recipe in another post, it is awesome!

The cupcakes were store bought at the last minute, mostly because I didn't get time to make them home made. Sometimes you just gotta go with easy and fast! They were pretty yummy anyway!

This was a super simple craft project I did a few days before the party, I had these empty containers and I decided to give them a cheap makeover

I put the silverware and bubble sticks in these at the party, and then moved them to hunters bedroom to put his colored pencils and things in up on a shelf. I used twine, ribbon, scrapbook paper and stickers. They only took about 30mins to make and cost me nothing because I just used scrap stuff I had laying around! I am going to make a couple fabric covered ones to hold my daughters headbands, you could also make them into a piggy bank if you save the lids.

So there is a little tidbit of Hunters 3rd birthday, He had a great day! I think his favorite part was the chocolate covered dipsticks...

I'm not sure how many of these things he ate...but I know there weren't any left after the party!

New craft project, part 1

This weekend was a busy one. We had A Tball game, I needed to do major grocery shopping and make a new menu, my husband was getting ready to head out of town for the week, and I needed to make baby food and had a few freezer cooking projects to complete. I did find a little time to work on my new skirt I am making. I have never sewn a skirt (besides baby ones), in fact, I've never made myself any article of clothing. So this was a true experiment. I found directions on pinterest for a skirt similar to what I wanted, got the cute fabric and I was ready to go. The first half of my project went a little something like this....


First I measured my waist line and length I wanted my skirt. The directions I followed stated I needed to add about 4 inches to it, so that the bottom of the skirt would be full and not too tight. So that's what I did(Big mistake number 1)  I cut my panel out by folding my fabric in half(I used about 2 1/2yards of fabric to start with) and then cutting my waist plus the length. I used a pretty sheer fabric so I had a jersey knit lining to go inside of it. I cut a panel out of both fabrics that were the same size.

Now, the jersey knit will not fray, so I did not need to hem it or Anything, its ready to go! But the sheer fabric frays like crazy, so I folded my seam over about half a inch, gently pressed it with a iron, and stuck lots of pins in it, then sewed it with a longer stitch (this fabric really bunches up, so I used the longer stitch to help with that,I also gently pulled it tight to keep it from gathering as I sewed). I went all the way around the panel.

Now I laid my lining piece on top of my pretty sheer fabric, right sides together. Get it nice and smooth. Going across the top(which will be the waist) I folded my fabric over about half a inch or so, this is going to attach the lining to the pretty fabric and also keep the frayed end tucked under. This is what it looked like

Then I gently pressed and pinned it together, and sewed a tight stitch across(make sure to pull gently so it doesn't gather, and also keep your fabric nice and smooth underneath and don't rush otherwise it will bunch up and you will have to take it out and start over.....yes I learned that the hard way, mistake number 3!

Now, measure your elastic band. Make a fold a little bigger than the width of the band. Keep it nice and smooth and pin it, then sew a long stitch straight across, leaving a opening at both ends that your
elastic can fit through. This is where the elastic goes and is the waist line of your skirt.

Now, after you sew your waistline opening, put a safety pin of the end of your elastic and slide it through the opening, it will gather as you slide it through. Just make sure you pin the other end so you don't lose it in the waist line, because then you will spend more time fishing it out (mistake number 4).

Now that its all through, stitch the elastic together and adjust the gather.

Then, making sure the skirt is inside out, stitch the last sides together. This is your hem that will be down the back of the skirt. Make sure you get it all nice and even, don't let the fabric bunch up or it will look funny.

 Now you should have a skirt! This is what mine looked like,

 my biggest mistake was adding the 4inches, it was way too big and really bulky at the top...not flattering at all for my back end! I also messed up when I hemmed my pretty fabric around the edges, I did one side, then when I did the
other I did it on the wrong side. So in the end I had a seam sticking out the back, OOPS!

 That is why you don't rush these things, I'm so impatient! Luckily, its a easy, but time consuming fix. I will now undo my last seam down the back, cut out about 4 inches of fabric and elastic, fix my other seam, then sew it all back up and hope it still looks pretty! Then I will be making a cute belt to go over the waistline to dress it up! Stay tuned for the finished product...

My new craft project

This week I have been working on a sewing project I had been wanting to do for a long time. I made my daughter, Madilynn, a long maxi skirt with ruffles around the bottom. I have it almost finished and its going to be super cute!(pics to come)
Madi's  skirt was my "practice" skirt before I make myself one. Im making these skirts for us to wear to a mothers day tea party at her school next friday.
Unfortunately, my one week project is turning into a two week project. I ran out of thread right when I was on my last ruffle, then I went on a search for more fabric for my skirt. I got everything I needed today and plan on working on my skirt and finishing Madis skirt this weekend.  I'll post pics of the finished product as soon as I get it finished, I'm so excited! I can picture what my skirt will look like, and if I succeed, and it turns out great, then I will definitely be making more! I always get a idea of what I want to wear, but then when I go shopping I can never find what I have pictured in my head. How much easier and awesome will it be to just go out and make exactly what I have pictured in my mind! Here is a picture of the fabric I got for my skirt, I love the red! It's jersey knit and a sheer fabric. The sparkly buttons are for the belt I'm making to go with it. Eek, I can't wait to finish it!!! Stay tuned....

Peanut butter chocolate chip granola

Yesterday I made granola for my sons 3rd birthday party. It was a hit so I thought I would pass on the recipe! I use organic ingredients but you can use regular.




Ingredients:

1/4 cup brown sugar

1/4 cup oil (sunflower or coconut oil is best, but you can use any) 

1/4 cup honey

4 cups old fashioned rolled oats

1 1/2 Tsp vanilla 

1/2 Tsp sea salt

1/2 cup organic raisins

1/2 cup organic dark chocolate chips

1/2 Tsp cinnamon

1/2 cup organic peanut butter

1/2 cup organic peanut butter chips

1 cup organic chocolate rice crispy cereal (I use koala crunch cereal from sprouts, they have chocolate or regular and its all natural ingredients) 

Directions:

Mix rice cereal, oats, raisins and salt in a large bowl, set to side.

In a saucepan add peanut butter, cinnamon, honey,brown sugar and oil and heat until melted and creamy, turn off heat, add vinilla extract and give it a good stir.

Now pour liquid mixture over oat mixture and stir with a spatula until mixed well and coats all the oats. Spread out on a cookie sheet and bake at 350 for about 15mins, stirring occasionally. Take out of oven and let cool COMPLETELY.

Now (after its cooled) add the chocolate chips and peanut butter chips. You can also add almonds or any other kind of nut(I would add the nuts before you cook it). I've also added sunflower seeds to mine and it tasted great! 

Enjoy! 

Cinnamon Raisin Granola Cookies

Cinnamon Raisin Granola Cookies

2 sticks Butter (salted) Softened

1/2 cup Sugar

1-1/2 cup Brown Sugar

2 whole Eggs

1 Tablespoon Vanilla Extract

1-1/2 cup All-purpose Flour

1/2 teaspoon Baking Soda

1 teaspoon Baking Powder

2 Tsp cinnamon 

1 teaspoons Sea Salt

1-1/2 cup rolled oats

1 cup organic California raisins 

1/2 cups  organic Chocolate Chips (I used mini organic semi-sweet)

2 cups organic Krispy rice cereal (or Rice Krispies)

Directions

Preheat oven to 350 degrees.

Cream butter with sugars until fluffy. Add eggs one at a time, mixing well after each addition. Add vanilla and mix until blended.

In a separate bowl, combine flour, cinnamon, baking soda, baking powder, and kosher salt. Add to mixing bowl and mix till combined. 

After that, add in remaining ingredients in whatever quantity you prefer. Add more chocolate chips and raisins if you want, or you can add nuts if you would like(mine are nut free)

last add Krispy rice cereal(rice Krispies) mixing until just combined.

scoop balls of dough onto a cookie sheet. Bake until golden brown, then allow to cool on a rack.

Enjoy!

Freezer tip!

After you make your dough, save some for the freezer! Line a baking sheet with wax paper, scoop balls out onto pan and place another sheet of wax paper over top. Put into freezer until frozen, then pop them out into ziplock bags and save for another day! When you are ready to bake them, just place the frozen cookie dough onto a baking sheet and bake at 375 until golden brown :)