Wednesday, September 18, 2013

Count your Blessings

Isn't it funny how God seems to bring the right scripture and right devotional to you in a time when you need to hear it most? I needed to read this today!  This scripture I read this morning was a great reminder for me to count my blessings and remember how "rich" I really am. I just thought I would pass it along :)



For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it. But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that. Those who want to get rich fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destruction. For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs. But you, man of God, flee from all this, and pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, endurance and gentleness. Fight the good fight of the faith. Take hold of the eternal life to which you were called when you made your good confession in the presence of many witnesses. In the sight of God, who gives life to everything, and of Christ Jesus, who while testifying before Pontius Pilate made the good confession, I charge you to keep this command without spot or blame until the appearing of our Lord Jesus Christ, which God will bring about in his own time—God, the blessed and only Ruler, the King of kings and Lord of lords, who alone is immortal and who lives in unapproachable light, whom no one has seen or can see. To him be honor and might forever. Amen. Command those who are rich in this present world not to be arrogant nor to put their hope in wealth, which is so uncertain, but to put their hope in God, who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment. Command them to do good, to be rich in good deeds, and to be generous and willing to share. In this way they will lay up treasure for themselves as a firm foundation for the coming age, so that they may take hold of the life that is truly life. Timothy, guard what has been entrusted to your care. Turn away from godless chatter and the opposing ideas of what is falsely called knowledge, which some have professed and in so doing have departed from the faith. Grace be with you all. (1 Timothy 6:7-21 NIV)

Friday, June 7, 2013

Imperfect progress

Here is the last devotion from the "No more unglued momma mornings". You can find the full devotional on the you version Bible app. I'm reading her book "unglued" right now and it's a wonderful book, check it out!




Practice these things, immerse yourself in them, so that all may see your progress. (1 Timothy 4:15 ESV)


IMPERFECT PROGRESS 

What kept me from making changes with unglued mama mornings for so long was the feeling I wouldn't do it perfectly. I knew I'd still mess up and come unglued. Sometimes we girls think if we don't make instant progress, then real change isn't coming. 

But that's not so. 

There is a beautiful reality called imperfect progress. The day I realized the glorious hope of this kind of imperfect change is the day I gave myself permission to believe I really could be different. 
Imperfect changes are slow steps of progress wrapped in grace … imperfect progress. And good heavens, I need lots of that. So, I dared to write this in my journal: 

Progress. Just make progress. It's okay to have setbacks and to need do-overs. It's okay to draw a line in the sand and start over again—and again. Just make sure you're moving the line forward. Move forward. Take baby steps, but at least take steps that keep you from being stuck. Then change will come. And it will be good. 

These honest words enabled me to begin rewriting my story. Not that I erased what came before, but I stopped rehashing it and turned the page afresh. Eventually, I started blogging about my raw emotions and imperfect changes. In response, I got comments whispering, "Me too." 

"Being unglued, for me, comes from a combination of anger and fear," wrote Kathy. "I think part of it is learned behavior. This is how my father was." Courtney honestly admitted, "I come unglued when I feel out of control because my kids are screaming or fighting or whining or negotiating and won't listen. I like silence, calm, obedience, and control. When it's not going 'my way,' I come unglued and freak out and it goes quiet. And then the regret comes." 

And the comments kept coming, all of them expressing the exact same struggle, the same frustration, and the same need for hope. So many women whose daily circumstances differed but whose core issues were the same.

I realized then that maybe other women could make some imperfect progress too. And a book idea was born from that simple realization. But I had to laugh at the irony of it. I had just published a book called Made to Crave that dealt with what goes into my mouth. Now I was writing a book called Unglued to deal with what comes out of my mouth. 

This Unglued journey is about my imperfect progress. It's an honest admission that this struggle of reining in how I react has been hard for me. But hard doesn't mean impossible. 
How hard something is often depends on your vantage point. 

For example, consider the shell of an egg. Looking at it from the outside, we know an eggshell is easily broken. But if you're looking at that same shell from the inside, it seems an impenetrable fortress. It's impossible for the raw white and tender yolk to penetrate the hardness of the eggshell. 
But given time and the proper incubation, the white and yolk develop into a new life that breaks through the shell and shakes itself free. And in the end, we can see that the hard work of cracking the shell was good for the new baby chick. 

The shell actually provided a place for new life to grow, and then enabled the chick to break forth in strength. 

Might the same be true for our hard places? Might all this struggle with our raw emotions and unglued feelings have the exact same potential for new life and new strength? 

I think so. I know so. I've seen so. 

Mother Teresa is quoted as saying, "Be faithful in small things because it is in them that your strength lies." Make some small imperfect progress today and discover your potential for new life and new strength. 

MAKING IT A REALITY: 

For the next week, write the words imperfect progress at the top of every day's to do list. If you have a smart phone, set an alert to pop up each morning of this week to remind you, "Make imperfect progress today." Then determine that making imperfect progress with your reactions is the most important thing you can accomplish today.

Thursday, June 6, 2013

BRING IT!

Today's devotion from the author of "unglued" and "made to crave". Which are two really great books!

Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth. (Colossians 3:2 ESV)


BRING IT! 
Just in case you aren't feeling like mother of the year today, let me make you feel better. While I was packing lunches recently my daughter said with great urgency, "Mom, just make sure none of the food you are packing in my lunch is rotten." 

Alrighty then. A statement like that will just build your mom confidence ALL DAY LONG! 

Do you ever have these little zingers that fly into your morning and sting your heart? I suspect you do. And it's these kinds of things that can catch us off guard and start ratcheting up the tension that leads to coming unglued. 

We don't want to be unglued mamas. We don't want to have mornings filled with unglued moments. So, today let's think about what we do want our mornings to be filled with ... love, peace, joy, sanity, kind words, and interactions with our kids that won't be retold years later on some therapist's couch. 

Yes, that's what we want. 

But here's the tricky part: I can't control the unpredictable attitudes my kids are going to bring into each morning. 

I can't set my hope for a good morning on what my kids might or might not do. I must bring the attitude with which I want the morning to be filled. Just like our key verse says, I have to set my mind on things from above ... things from God. 

A few years ago my friend Angela Thomas challenged me with this "bring it" idea. We were talking about how sometimes when we show up to speak the audience seems a little lacking in energy. As a speaker, it's really hard to step in front of an audience with very low energy. So, Angela decides what kind of energy the room needs to be filled with and she brings it as she steps on stage. 

She focuses her energy on what she has control over. 

She can't control the mood of an audience any more than we can control the moods of our kids. But we can determine if a good mood is what we want as we pack lunches, sign last minute permission slips, and pile backpacks into the car, then we can make the choice to bring it. 

Here are three reminders that will help us bring it: 

1. Feelings are indicators not dictators.
 
I'm not always going to have blissful, happy feelings. I'm just not. But while my feelings may indicate I have some things to address, they don't have to dictate a bad mood. It's time for me to be the boss of my feelings and determine to bring the joy I want my home to be filled with today. 

2. Bad moments don't make bad mamas.
 
Have you ever caught yourself labeling the kind of mother you are in light of a few bad moments with your kids? "I'm not patient." "I lose it all the time." "I'm the most disorganized mother on the planet." 

Me too. 

But these labels won't help us bring more joy into our mornings—they'll just bog us down. Here's the reality ... just because I have an impatient moment doesn't mean I'm an impatient mother. We need to stop the self-condemning labels by matching each negative moment with a positive reality. Maybe I had an impatient moment when I helped with homework last night but this morning I'm bringing patience in the way I helped my daughter find something to wear. 

3. Find the joy treasure.
 
There will be a treasure hidden in the moments you experience this morning. Look for it. 
Look for the way she tucks her curls behind her ears and ties the ribbon in her hair. Look for the way he fiddles with his hat trying to look cool. Take a snapshot this morning of this joy treasure. Don't miss it. When you find it, tuck it in your heart and let it sink deep. These are the moments that form that wellspring of joy and help us keep bringing it. 
Peace, love, joy, patience, kindness—these are the things with which we want to fill our mornings. Despite the circumstances we face and the attitudes of others, it is possible to have this wonderful atmosphere—if we decide to bring it. 

MAKING IT A REALITY: 

Make the choice to bring the atmosphere you want by writing out the words that describe what you want your morning to be like. Try using a dry erase marker on your bathroom mirror. You can also write these 3 statements for "bringing it" on other windows and mirrors throughout your home:
 
* "Feelings are indicators not dictators."
 
* "Bad moments don't make bad mamas."
 
* "Find the joy treasure." 

When your family asks you about these statements you've written, just smile and proudly proclaim, "They help me bring it." 

Wednesday, June 5, 2013

I am the MOM


Just passing on another one of the devotions I've been reading.  Being a mom is hard work, but totally worth it :) This is something I needed today!


Let your reasonableness be known to everyone. The Lord is at hand; do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. (Philippians 4:5, 6 ESV)


I AM THE MOM 

I find being a mom the most stretching thing I've ever done. I carry with me evidence of this stretching. Marks on my body. Marks on my heart. 

It's thrilling. Heartbreaking. Sweet. Exciting. Disillusioning. And incredibly unpredictable. 
Just when I think I've figured a few things out and I'm about to shine my mommy halo, something happens. Something loud and tearful and frustratingly difficult. And I find myself knee deep in drama wondering if I will survive with any sanity at all. 

It makes me laugh when I think back to being pregnant with my first child eighteen years ago. I was convinced I would die in the child birthing process. I even set up a special meeting with my doctor to go over exactly what happens in the birthing process and tearfully gave him all the reasons I was convinced I would not survive this process. 

I so wish I could go stand in front of my little, um huge, pregnant self and say this: 

"Honey, you will not perish giving birth. This part of motherhood will seem like a walk in the park in just a few years. You will not only survive giving birth but you are about to spend the next twenty years having your tiny little brain and your tiny little heart experience more highs and lows than you can shake a stick at. Just remember one thing ... You are the mom. That's right you da' mama. Repeat after me ... I am the Mom. I am the Mom. I am the Mom! Don't ever forget that." 

Yes, I would tell my little huge pregnant self that because it's easy to forget sometimes who's really in charge. My kids want to be in charge. And while they certainly have the strong wills and wonders of leadership ... my husband is quick to remind me, it's immature leadership. Leadership that needs to be shaped and molded and corrected and reigned in. 
Zephaniah 3:17 (NKJV) says, "The Lord your God in your midst, The Mighty One, will save; He will rejoice over you with gladness, He will quiet you with His love, He will rejoice over you with singing." 

Philippians 4:5b-6a (NIV 1984) says, "The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything." 
This reminds me I am not left to my own pitiful attempts at this daunting task but because Jesus is with me I have power. Real power. Not just theories and words given by human parenting experts whose advice may or may not work. I have power to rise up to be da' mama. 

God has appointed me to be in charge which means, using the maturity and wisdom I've gained, I must shape and mold my kids. I can't let them use their immaturity and limited perspectives to dictate me. 

I am the mom. Therefore I must be the mom. And one of the best ways to implement this during stressful mornings is to remember: My kid's irresponsibility will not become my emergency. 

I need to communicate my expectations to the kids so they know they are going to have to own the consequences of their choices. 

For example, if they wait until the last minute to print their report and the printer has no ink, then they can't print their report. They'll either have to figure out how to print it at school or turn it in late. Either way, I can't own this situation and let it throw me into frantic, fix-it mode. I let the consequences of their choices scream, so I don't have to. 
I have what it takes to be the mom! 

You have what it takes to be the mom!

Now, be the mom! 

Not sure who else needed this little pep rally this morning. But I sure did. 

MAKING IT A REALITY: 

Go ahead and think through some logical and realistic consequences you can give when your kids need your correction. This is especially good to have for rushed and stressful morning routines. For example, tell them what time you expect them to be in the car ready to go. For every minute they are late, they will have to go to bed 10 minutes early that night. Six minutes late will mean they'll be heading to bed an hour early. For older kids you might want to adjust their weekend curfew t

Monday, June 3, 2013

Managing Blessings

Just wanted to share my devotional from this morning. I've been reading through a new one with my Bible app about motherhood and some of the trials we have on a daily basis. I have really enjoyed reading it and I thought you may enjoy it too!


Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. (1 Thessalonians 5:18 ESV)


MANAGING BLESSINGS 

I have never been a member of the perfect mom's club. Never. But if I ever was, I'll tell you about the day my membership would have surely been revoked. 

It was my youngest daughter, Brooke's big "Let's Celebrate Mommy Day" at the church preschool. All the mommies waited excitedly in the hall for little hands to put last minute touches on the well-decorated room. 

I was already feeling off as I stood with all the other moms who'd actually taken time to do their hair and wear outfits. My wet hair was slicked back haphazardly in a banana clip. My black yoga pants had some sort of smear across the thigh. And my tennis shoes looked clunky standing with all the other cute sandals and well pedicured toes. 

Finally, the teacher came to the classroom door and welcomed us inside. 

A room full of cupcakes, giggles, claps and sparkling preschool eyes greeted us. 

The highlight of the room was the clothesline with pinned artistic treasures. Each child had been asked to draw a picture of their mommy's favorite place. Then the teacher wrote below the crayon masterpiece what the child said when drawing the picture. 

There were pictures of beaches and mountains and even a grocery store. The preciousness abounded. Until. I got to the picture featuring my favorite place. 

"My mommy's favorite place is in bed with Daddy." 

Oh have mercy on my soul that could die a thousand deaths right here in the preschool room. 

Yes. I kid you not. 

My only saving grace was that both mommy and daddy were fully clothed, sitting on the bed eating ice cream. 

But still. 

The rhythm of motherhood will always be set to a slightly chaotic beat. I can be rattled to the core by the unpredictability of it all. Or I can choose to laugh, dance, and remember I'm managing blessings. 

So, this morning when things start swirling and you can feel your attitude slipping, whisper to yourself, "All of this is evidence that I'm managing blessings." And then thank heaven above that your kid didn't draw "that" picture. 

MAKING IT A REALITY: 

Write each of your kids a note and list five things you've noticed about them lately that you love and admire. It's amazing what happens in our hearts and theirs when we focus on their blessings rather than their chaos. 

Sunday, June 2, 2013

Quite a eventful two weeks....

Well Hello!
 It seems like its been forever since I updated the blogs! With all the crazy Oklahoma weather and then losing power for the past couple days, I haven't had a minute to sit down long enough to get on here. So here's a post to catch you up, and hopefully this week will be much less crazy and I can get back to a somewhat normal routine again.


Tonight is our first night sleeping back at home since Fridays storms came through our area.  We are SO happy to be back home and we feel SO grateful that we have a home still standing to come to. The past two weeks have been quite a emotional ride and I will say I am SO ready for the Hot summer weather and I am totally over spring!

I've learned a few lessons after the crazy tornado events we have had here.

#1. We need to buy a storm shelter ASAP! I am grateful that my parents have a safe room, but I've realized after the Moore tornado on the 20th that I might not always have time to run across town to my moms(by the time we made it to my moms through traffic the tornado was already on the ground 3 miles from my house!)

#2: I will be getting better insurance

 #3: I will NEVER listen to my husband and let him stay at work on a day when they have the whole city shut down by 4:00, and are live streaming waiting for big tornadoes to come barreling through the city. He is pretty stubborn sometimes, and Friday he was one of the crazies out driving in between tornadoes trying to find a place to take shelter, it was 10:00 before he finally made it home and it was a long evening of me not knowing where he was or if he was okay. At first he said he was at work and there was a shelter, so I was okay with him staying. Next thing I know the sky is dropping down huge tornadoes left and right, the weather man is going crazy and saying things like "huge wedge tornadoes, multi vortex, killer tornado and may 3rd. I'm seeing things on facebook of people getting sucked off the highway, at that point my husbands last words to me before we got disconnected were "I'm in my truck and headed towards Newcastle, I can see a tornado just north of me over mustang area", then dial tones and busy signals. It was over a hour before I learned that he found a Walmart to take shelter in until it all passed and he was okay (thankfully).  I didn't know whether I wanted to hurt him or hug him when he walked in the door, but I went with the hug....and I may have made a few threats if he ever tried that again :)

#4: battery operated fans will come in handy if we ever have to pile in a safe room again, those rooms get HOT, and crying, hot kids are no fun.

#5 and most important: God is in control, and it feels so good knowing that even when I am stressed or overwhelmed, I can turn to him and he comforts and helps me get through it. I'm still learning not to worry about things and that I shouldn't fear, but I'm not perfect and sometimes I do get scared. sometimes I get overwhelmed  and caught up in a moment, I've felt like God is so far away and sometimes I lose my cool and fall apart. But that's okay, that just means I'm human and I need Jesus all the more. When I'm weak and suffering he is strong and he uses those hard and scary times to remind me of my weakness and dependence on him. I am not strong enough to handle things on my own, but HE is strong and HE is the one I should turn to in times of hardship, not just the happy times when things are going my way. He continues to pick me back up when I fall and he teaches me new things everyday. He doesn't promise me a easy life that is care free, but he does promise that this life is as bad as it will get for me. One day there will be no more tornadoes, no more death, no more sickness and no more struggles, and in the mean time he is here to help carry me through. I am VERY grateful for that.


Our thoughts and prayers are with all the families who have lost loved ones in the past couple weeks. We are praying for our state and with Gods help we will be able to get through all of this!

Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Car's themed 3rd Birthday

If you know my children, then you know that my son hunter has a obsession with cars and trucks. He has quite the collection too! Even though he has hundreds of little cars and trucks, when he is asked what he wants for his birthday or Christmas his answer is always one of three things. 1: A car, 2: a truck or 3: lightning McQueen and mater.

When we go shopping he always picks a little hot wheel car, or lately he loves the teeny tiny Disney cars. I guess it's kinda like a woman and her shoes or purses, you just can't have too many!

So when his birthday was quickly approaching I asked him what kind of party he wanted, I shouldn't have even had to ask because of course it had to be a cars themed party! Not just any cars either, it had to be lightning McQueen and mater!

Now this year my budget was cut way back, so I had about $100 to do his whole party. We had a afternoon party at our house, mostly family. I served a few snacks and the cousins played. All and all it was a great party, the kids had fun, and the birthday boy was happy! It turned out pretty cute too!


This is the snack table. The backdrop is a fence panel we leave up in our toy room...i have a plan to attach it to the wall for a neat idea for a wall accent, I am going to hang frames on it. This was not intentional, but we had it up after a craft party I had when I was selling my wreaths and everyone thought I should leave it up. Now I've grown attached, and its nice for other parties as a backdrop. So its staying!


The black fabric I saved from a wedding shower I hosted a couple years ago, I've used it for three wedding showers, a baby shower and now a birthday party. Best $10 I've spent! It sure does beat buying a paper cloth for every party, and its so much prettier!

I made the flag banner with intention to put his name on it. I didn't have time to get it done though because it was a very last minute decision to make it. I have it hanging in his bedroom now and plan on adding his name to it. Yes, of course his bedroom is decorated in a cars theme. So I was happy to do his party in the same theme, that way I can re-use the decor in his bedroom! One thing I have learned over the past few years is to plan party themes with colors in mind that match my house. so then after the party I can re-use the decor in my house. This saves me money(because I can re-use the decor for other parties or year after year) and also gives me a great excuse to decorate my house!
 The signs I found at hobby lobby half off, and I bought them for his bedroom. They cost me about $15 for all three. The checkered fabric I'm using to make two window valances in his bedroom. I used my 40% off coupon and snagged 2 yard for around $6!

Now on to the snacks...
I wanted to serve popcorn, because its cheap, easy to make, and the kids love it! I made these cute popcorn cones out of scrapbook paper and stickers, also found half off at hobby lobby. It cost about $1.50 to make all of them 
I also make chocolate covered pretzel sticks, or rather "dip sticks". I found this cute oil can to go with his bedroom decor a while back, it seemed appropriated to put the dip sticks in the oil can ;)
The red crate is something I had lying around, I spray painted it red and filled it with black crinkled paper, found at hobby lobby for about $1 or 2.
I used some of hunters cars collection to add to the decorations

The rest of the snacks I put in some jars and things I have collected over the year for parties, when I'm not using them for parties they go in my pantry to store pasta and other things in. The big round jars I found at walmart for around $5 each. the glass bowls were $2 from walmart

I made a batch of peanut butter chocolate chip granola, and we had organic Annie's cheddar bunny snack mix, my mom made a delicious batch of caramel popcorn that was amazing! Ill have to share that recipe in another post, it is awesome!


The cupcakes were store bought at the last minute, mostly because I didn't get time to make them home made. Sometimes you just gotta go with easy and fast! They were pretty yummy anyway!

This was a super simple craft project I did a few days before the party, I had these empty containers and I decided to give them a cheap makeover

I put the silverware and bubble sticks in these at the party, and then moved them to hunters bedroom to put his colored pencils and things in up on a shelf. I used twine, ribbon, scrapbook paper and stickers. They only took about 30mins to make and cost me nothing because I just used scrap stuff I had laying around! I am going to make a couple fabric covered ones to hold my daughters headbands, you could also make them into a piggy bank if you save the lids.


So there is a little tidbit of Hunters 3rd birthday, He had a great day! I think his favorite part was the chocolate covered dipsticks...



I'm not sure how many of these things he ate...but I know there weren't any left after the party!






Monday, May 6, 2013

New craft project, part 1

This weekend was a busy one. We had A Tball game, I needed to do major grocery shopping and make a new menu, my husband was getting ready to head out of town for the week, and I needed to make baby food and had a few freezer cooking projects to complete. I did find a little time to work on my new skirt I am making. I have never sewn a skirt (besides baby ones), in fact, I've never made myself any article of clothing. So this was a true experiment. I found directions on pinterest for a skirt similar to what I wanted, got the cute fabric and I was ready to go. The first half of my project went a little something like this....


First I measured my waist line and length I wanted my skirt. The directions I followed stated I needed to add about 4 inches to it, so that the bottom of the skirt would be full and not too tight. So that's what I did(Big mistake number 1)  I cut my panel out by folding my fabric in half(I used about 2 1/2yards of fabric to start with) and then cutting my waist plus the length. I used a pretty sheer fabric so I had a jersey knit lining to go inside of it. I cut a panel out of both fabrics that were the same size.

Now, the jersey knit will not fray, so I did not need to hem it or Anything, its ready to go! But the sheer fabric frays like crazy, so I folded my seam over about half a inch, gently pressed it with a iron, and stuck lots of pins in it, then sewed it with a longer stitch (this fabric really bunches up, so I used the longer stitch to help with that,I also gently pulled it tight to keep it from gathering as I sewed). I went all the way around the panel.

Now I laid my lining piece on top of my pretty sheer fabric, right sides together. Get it nice and smooth. Going across the top(which will be the waist) I folded my fabric over about half a inch or so, this is going to attach the lining to the pretty fabric and also keep the frayed end tucked under. This is what it looked like




Then I gently pressed and pinned it together, and sewed a tight stitch across(make sure to pull gently so it doesn't gather, and also keep your fabric nice and smooth underneath and don't rush otherwise it will bunch up and you will have to take it out and start over.....yes I learned that the hard way, mistake number 3!

Now, measure your elastic band. Make a fold a little bigger than the width of the band. Keep it nice and smooth and pin it, then sew a long stitch straight across, leaving a opening at both ends that your
elastic can fit through. This is where the elastic goes and is the waist line of your skirt.


Now, after you sew your waistline opening, put a safety pin of the end of your elastic and slide it through the opening, it will gather as you slide it through. Just make sure you pin the other end so you don't lose it in the waist line, because then you will spend more time fishing it out (mistake number 4).


Now that its all through, stitch the elastic together and adjust the gather.

Then, making sure the skirt is inside out, stitch the last sides together. This is your hem that will be down the back of the skirt. Make sure you get it all nice and even, don't let the fabric bunch up or it will look funny.

 Now you should have a skirt! This is what mine looked like,







 my biggest mistake was adding the 4inches, it was way too big and really bulky at the top...not flattering at all for my back end! I also messed up when I hemmed my pretty fabric around the edges, I did one side, then when I did the
other I did it on the wrong side. So in the end I had a seam sticking out the back, OOPS!

 That is why you don't rush these things, I'm so impatient! Luckily, its a easy, but time consuming fix. I will now undo my last seam down the back, cut out about 4 inches of fabric and elastic, fix my other seam, then sew it all back up and hope it still looks pretty! Then I will be making a cute belt to go over the waistline to dress it up! Stay tuned for the finished product...






Friday, May 3, 2013

My new craft project

This week I have been working on a sewing project I had been wanting to do for a long time. I made my daughter, Madilynn, a long maxi skirt with ruffles around the bottom. I have it almost finished and its going to be super cute!(pics to come)
Madi's  skirt was my "practice" skirt before I make myself one. Im making these skirts for us to wear to a mothers day tea party at her school next friday.
Unfortunately, my one week project is turning into a two week project. I ran out of thread right when I was on my last ruffle, then I went on a search for more fabric for my skirt. I got everything I needed today and plan on working on my skirt and finishing Madis skirt this weekend.  I'll post pics of the finished product as soon as I get it finished, I'm so excited! I can picture what my skirt will look like, and if I succeed, and it turns out great, then I will definitely be making more! I always get a idea of what I want to wear, but then when I go shopping I can never find what I have pictured in my head. How much easier and awesome will it be to just go out and make exactly what I have pictured in my mind! Here is a picture of the fabric I got for my skirt, I love the red! It's jersey knit and a sheer fabric. The sparkly buttons are for the belt I'm making to go with it. Eek, I can't wait to finish it!!! Stay tuned....



Saturday, April 27, 2013

Peanut butter chocolate chip granola

Yesterday I made granola for my sons 3rd birthday party. It was a hit so I thought I would pass on the recipe! I use organic ingredients but you can use regular.




Ingredients:

1/4 cup brown sugar
1/4 cup oil (sunflower or coconut oil is best, but you can use any) 
1/4 cup honey
4 cups old fashioned rolled oats
1 1/2 Tsp vanilla 
1/2 Tsp sea salt
1/2 cup organic raisins
1/2 cup organic dark chocolate chips
1/2 Tsp cinnamon
1/2 cup organic peanut butter
1/2 cup organic peanut butter chips
1 cup organic chocolate rice crispy cereal (I use koala crunch cereal from sprouts, they have chocolate or regular and its all natural ingredients) 


Directions:
Mix rice cereal, oats, raisins and salt in a large bowl, set to side.
In a saucepan add peanut butter, cinnamon, honey,brown sugar and oil and heat until melted and creamy, turn off heat, add vinilla extract and give it a good stir.

Now pour liquid mixture over oat mixture and stir with a spatula until mixed well and coats all the oats. Spread out on a cookie sheet and bake at 350 for about 15mins, stirring occasionally. Take out of oven and let cool COMPLETELY.

Now (after its cooled) add the chocolate chips and peanut butter chips. You can also add almonds or any other kind of nut(I would add the nuts before you cook it). I've also added sunflower seeds to mine and it tasted great! 

Enjoy! 




Saturday, April 20, 2013

Cinnamon Raisin Granola Cookies


Cinnamon Raisin Granola Cookies

2 sticks Butter (salted) Softened
1/2 cup Sugar
1-1/2 cup Brown Sugar
2 whole Eggs
1 Tablespoon Vanilla Extract
1-1/2 cup All-purpose Flour
1/2 teaspoon Baking Soda
1 teaspoon Baking Powder
2 Tsp cinnamon 
1 teaspoons Sea Salt
1-1/2 cup rolled oats
1 cup organic California raisins 
1/2 cups  organic Chocolate Chips (I used mini organic semi-sweet)
2 cups organic Krispy rice cereal (or Rice Krispies)


Directions
Preheat oven to 350 degrees.

Cream butter with sugars until fluffy. Add eggs one at a time, mixing well after each addition. Add vanilla and mix until blended.

In a separate bowl, combine flour, cinnamon, baking soda, baking powder, and kosher salt. Add to mixing bowl and mix till combined. 

After that, add in remaining ingredients in whatever quantity you prefer. Add more chocolate chips and raisins if you want, or you can add nuts if you would like(mine are nut free)

last add Krispy rice cereal(rice Krispies) mixing until just combined.

scoop balls of dough onto a cookie sheet. Bake until golden brown, then allow to cool on a rack.

Enjoy!


Freezer tip!
After you make your dough, save some for the freezer! Line a baking sheet with wax paper, scoop balls out onto pan and place another sheet of wax paper over top. Put into freezer until frozen, then pop them out into ziplock bags and save for another day! When you are ready to bake them, just place the frozen cookie dough onto a baking sheet and bake at 375 until golden brown :) 

Friday, April 12, 2013

My baby is growing up!

I cannot believe my little, sweet baby girl is already nine months old!! With every child it seems like time is going by more quickly. It makes me sad and happy at the same time. Sad because my babies are growing up, but happy because they are growing and healthy!

The other day my sweet baby girl hailey started Really trying to crawl on all fours. She does a cute little scoot, gets frustrated because she cant crawl very fast without falling, so she then rolls in a circle until she positions herself to where she can roll to what she is going after. It is hilarious and amazes me at how fast she can do all that!
She is starting to show her personality quite a bit also. I will say I can already see a lot of stubbornness( which of course she gets from her father ;) and I have NEVER seen a nine month old baby throw such a temper fit in my life. I don't know if its a third child thing or if its just her personality (I'm leaning more towards the fact that she watches her older siblings do this) but when she has found a little "treasure" in the floor (aka a small piece of paper, Barbie shoe, dog toy, anything or everything she is NOT suppose to have) and I notice and say, "hailey, no no", she literally jumps and as fast as she can she attempts to hide the "treasure" under her tummy so that mommy won't swipe it out of her hands(or mouth) It's like she already knows she is in trouble and not suppose to have it. Then when I take it from her, she throws her head back, kicks her little chubby legs and grunts really loudly, she also has quite a strong grip! Is it just me or does it seem like each child learns these things earlier and earlier?

With all that said, she is still the sweetest baby ever! She has a big smile that just melts your heart! She loves to hum and "sing" itsy bitsy spider, she likes to clap her hands and say "yaaaa", and her favorite word is Mama. I cannot help but laugh at her temper fits because she is SO stinkin cute! I mean, look at this face and tell me it doesn't make you smile!



She is a sweetie pie! Big temper and all :)














Homemade cinnamon swirl bread

We love to eat cinnamon toast for breakfast. I have tried a few recipes for cinnamon bread, but didnt care for them, then I came across this recipe. I have made it three times now and it is wonderful! My husband almost ate the whole loaf the first day I made it! If you can be patient and give it plenty of rising time, then it turns out fluffy and delicious! Just thought I would pass along the recipe :)

(I also made French toast with this bread and it was Amazing!)

http://thepioneerwoman.com/cooking/2010/08/homemade-cinnamon-bread/


I made a loaf for my freezer, I just let it cool and slice it, wrap it in Reynolds wrap, then place
It in a old bread bag I keep. Freeze it and when you are ready to eat it just take a couple slices
Out and pop them in the toaster!

Enjoy!

Friday, April 5, 2013

Bowtie pasta

This is our favorite pasta! My mom makes it all the time, she started making this recipe because she loved the Bowtie festival at Johnny Carinos. I like this version better though :) 


Ingredients:
1 pkg Bacon (diced into bits and cooked)
1 cup half and half (or milk)
2 Tablespoons Butter
1 egg
1 cup grated Parmesan cheese(or more if desired) 
1 bag of fajita chicken (or 4 chicken tenderloins)
Bowtie pasta (1 box)
Salt & pepper 



Dice your bacon into bits and cook. Set to side

Heat your chicken in a skillet ( if you use tenderloins then put a little olive oil in the pan and cook on med heat until done, or I also cook the chicken in the bacon grease) 

While your chicken is cooking boil your Bowtie noodles.

When your chicken is done set to side (cut up tenderloins into chunks)

Next start your sauce: place your half and half, butter and 1/2 cup of Parmesan cheese, and egg in a sauce pan on low heat,  stir well with a whisk and heat until sauce thickens and becomes creamy(stirring continually, IMPORTANT: DO NOT LET SAUCE BOIL) I heat mine in between medium and low heat. 

Next in a very large bowl place the noodles, bacon, chicken and the rest of the cheese, pour the sauce ver top and mix together. Add salt and pepper to taste, you can also add garlic salt if you would like.



The sauce is a little tricky, but the key is to cook it slowly so it doesn't get too hot and get lumpy, but it needs to heat long enough to thicken. I have learned not to leave the sauce at all, I stand there and stir it with a metal whisk for a while, then take a metal spoon and stir until it feels creamy and it will coat the spoon (if you pull the spoon out and the sauce slides right off and is watery then its not done)


You can add green onions and diced tomatoes to the pasta if you want (I don't ever do this but Johnny Carinos Bowtie festival has green onions and diced tomatoes, its really good. So I've always wanted to try it)


I serve this with home made garlic bread sticks, or Italian herb and cheese biscuits!  

Enjoy!

Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Crockpot cheesy chicken & rice

This is my crockpot version of chicken and rice casserole. We love this and it re-heats well for leftovers! Enjoy :)




Ingredients:
1 1/2  California organic jasmine rice(this is the best rice, but you can use brown rice or regular minute rice if you want) follow directions on package for cooking rice.
3-4 boneless skinless chicken breast(or 6-7 tenderloins)
Dash of seasoning for chicken (I used mrs.dash garlic and herb)
1 cup organic low sodium chicken broth
1 batch of my home made cream of chicken (see earlier post for recipe) or 2 cans of cream of chicken if you don't want to make home made, but it tastes much better with the home made!
2% milk (or fat free)
2 cups frozen broccoli florets(or 1 bag)
1-2 cups shredded cheddar cheese


Directions:
Place chicken in crockpot and sprinkle with seasoning
Add 1 cup broth, cream of chicken and broccoli and cook on low heat for 6-8 hours depending on how thick your chicken is)


When chicken is cooked pull it apart and shred or dice it into junks. Return to the crockpot.

30mins prior to serving make your rice, add your cooked rice to the crockpot and stir until blended. Add a dash of milk if its too thick and stir. Add cheese stir, let it set 15 mins or until cheese is melted.

I serve mine with biscuits and green beans! You can add salt and pepper to taste if needed.


Crockpot ranch style beans

Here is my favorite recipe for home made ranch style beans. I got this from the Coupon Closets website a long time ago. Click here to visit her site . It tastes very close to canned(only better) and I freeze mine in small freezer bags. So when im ready for a can of ranch beans I have some home made frozen and ready to use. It saves you a lot of money and really isnt that time consuming since you can make a large batch at once. Just thought I would share, enjoy!





Crock Pot Ranch Beans 

Ingredients

1 pound dried pinto beans
6 ounces tomato paste
1/2 cup chopped onions
1 clove minced garlic
1 tablespoon chili powder
dash crushed red pepper flakes
1 teaspoon sea salt
1 teaspoon cumin
1/2 teaspoon dried marjoram
7 cups water


Directions:
Place all of the ingredients in the crock pot in order. 
Water goes in last

(you can substitute 3-4 teaspoons of bottled minced garlic if you don't have fresh )

Cook on low 6-8 hours.

Place left overs in small freezer bags and freeze for later! When you have a recipe that calls for canned ranch beans, use your frozen ones instead. I set mine in hot water(in the bag)and let them thaw a little while before I add them to my dishes.

Tuesday, February 26, 2013

Italian herb and cheese biscuits

In my family we love bread! We love to eat bread with our soups, chicken and dumplings and pastas. A couple years ago I started making biscuits out of bisquick when I made chicken and dumplings, I basically just followed the biscuit recipe on the box and then topped them with 
cheese. We liked it and it paired well with the dumplings. 

Then one day I made pasta and didn't have garlic bread, so I made canned biscuits and added 
garlic salt and cheese to the top, they were also good. I eventually quit buying garlic bread and just doing this method.

 So over the course of two years I have evolved those two quick biscuit recipes and created my own Italian herb and cheese biscuits from scratch. They are amazing!! Everyone who eats them loves them and always asks me for the recipe. We eat them with chicken and dumplings, soup, pasta, spaghetti, they go good with a lot of meals!
 I also have a second version that I call cheddar biscuits and they are very similar but without the herbs and I put more cheese in those. They both taste different even though they have almost the same ingredients. Both are equally excellent! So I thought I would share my famous biscuit recipes with ya"ll(don't you feel special?).  I usually double the recipe because my family of five inhales these things fast! 


Italian herb and cheese biscuits:

Ingredients:
2 cups all purpose WHITE flour(I use hodgson mills all natural)
1 Tablespoon baking powder
1/2 Teaspoon sea salt
2 Tablespoon of sugar
1/4 cup butter (stick butter, salted)
1 Tablespoon of Extra virgin olive oil
3/4 cup of 2% milk
1 Tablespoon of Italian seasoning blend
1/2 Teaspoon of garlic powder
1/2 cup of thick shredded cheddar cheese(I use mild cheddar)
Pinch of parsley (for top)




Directions:
Combine all dry ingredient and and cheese and blend well with whisk.

Cut butter into cubes and cut in butter until resembles coarse bread crumbs(leaving small chunks of butter in the dough, this is important)

Slowly stir in milk and oil until all of it comes together to form a dough ball.

Turn out dough ball onto a heavily floured surface.

 Let rest for a couple of minutes and then knead for about a minute 
re-flour surface and roll out to about 1/2″ thick.

 Cut biscuits with floured biscuit cutter (I use a drinking glass)and place onto a buttered baking pan.

Form remaining dough into ball and repeat until all dough is made into biscuits. 

 Bake on 375 degrees in the oven for 15 minutes or so, or until the top is golden brown.